男和女 你和我

齐尹孟田

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男和女 你和我
——评含羞草日志《畅销已婚女人——揭开献媚男人的厚脸皮》

  

文/可可  图/电视剧《半路夫妻》

  

  

其他不遑多论,只说一个“情欲”，这种鱼水之欢、巫山云雨之好是不分男女性别的。“女人因爱才有性，而男人是因性才有爱。”这样的话是不是有些性别歧视的意思？不论男女，性与爱都有可能是两者统一的，也有可能是两者不相干的。在这件事情上为何要说唯女人高尚而男人卑劣呢？其实现实生活中，许多时候不知是谁骚扰了谁、谁在诱惑了谁？激情之后，谁乐了，谁又伤了？谁赚了，谁又亏了？

  

本来是两厢情愿、两情相悦的好事，激情后却把自己说成高尚的牺牲者、无辜可怜的受害者，把男人形容成禽兽不如,只为了贪享一时快活，而把她阴谋骗奸了的下三滥。这是自我标榜清白无辜呢，还是自我贬低自甘无耻堕落？还是耻于自己“没守住最后防线，自我溃败、主动缴械投降，甚至故意引‘狼’入室”的行为，而想起要摭羞蔽丑妞妮作态呢？说什么“受伤害的总是女人”，这样可怜兮兮、深仇大恨的话，是不是有些矫情、故做姿态？既然如此，当初你为何还要含情脉脉、欲却还迎、热情似火、欲仙欲死、恨不相遇早些年呢？

  

不，在男欢女爱这件事情上，男人不是注定的赢家，而女人也不是注定的输家，男女之爱是一种给予对方快乐、同时又从对方那里获得了快乐的互帮互助行为。事前含情脉脉，事毕咬牙切齿，那些骂“男人没一个是好东西！”的女人，大约没有一个不希望自己遇上一个能彻底征服自己欲望的男人。“男人不坏，女人不爱”这句民间名言，诠释了女人心中对性和情真实的渴望。假若女人一辈子都没遇上真正的男人，而且还是有点“坏”的男人话，那她一定会抱恨终身的。“厚脸皮献媚”的男人，女人是心中喜欢嘴上却说“坏”，这个“坏”大多含有“言语暗示和肢体挑逗、公开赞赏、殷勤缠绵，稍有一些出格的主动、大胆表露追求性爱”的意思。

  

我这样说，并非赞成轻佻和鼓励婚外情，而是告诉大家一个事实：一个巴掌不仅拍不响，而且还很无聊。男女爱了、做了，两情相悦不是谁占了谁的便宜。否则，男人们在决定响应女人的盛情邀请的时候，也有必要和女人一样，将女人说的那句话改一个主语之后反思一下：

  

“ 女人不过是把你看成一个经济适用型的情人，安全性极高的身体伴侣罢了 ”

  

列侬说男人和女人之间应该：“多做爱，不要战争。”男女之间的战争已进行了几万年了，真是欢喜冤家。不见不行，见了又打架。为何？不就是生怕做爱后对方占了自己的便宜么？别介！这是多么美妙的事情，少了对方这好事做不成。即使是一时间的你恩我爱，彼此快乐了，为何还要猜忌妒恨对方呢？

    

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含羞草的回复

  

性是很美的事也是爱的升华！女人因爱才有性，而男人是因性才有爱。两种不同想法的性常上演人间悲喜剧。我们都是成年人，感情的事无可非议更没有嫉妒的念头，只是觉得任何事都是有个底线的。过了火想必就乐极生悲了。

  

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瑶乡看兰 发表于 2013-6-14 12:27
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齐尹孟田 发表于 2013-6-14 13:28
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